Science Quiz

After much deliberation, I choose to purchase Answers In Genesis’s God’s Design for Chemistry series for our science this year. As it is designed for Grades 3-8, it is a bit of a stretch for our young family. I figured my (young-for-her-grade) 3rd grader would grasp most of it and my first grader would be along for the ride. They both love experiments and the texts (Properties of Matter & Properties of Atoms & Molecules) have a fun activity or experiment almost every single lesson.

Both have really struggled grasping the concepts. I didn’t realize how much trouble they would have. The first quiz (Lessons 1-4 in Properties of Matter book) didn’t go the greatest. But the second was really dismal. The older child grasp the concepts as shown in the short answer portion of the quiz but doesn’t have a clue on the terminology. The younger child can figure out the terminology as shown by her fairly decent score in the matching portion of the quiz but doesn’t get the underlying concept.

But that’s not why I’m posting about this. I just wanted to share Child #2’s answer on one of the “short answer” questions because it had me rolling with laughter. I must set this up by saying that 1) we studied astronomy last year and 2) the chemistry text discussed the concept of buoyancy with examples of swimming in a pool filled with rubbing alcohol (where we would likely have issues staying afloat) and a pool filled with mercury (which would be a bad idea, obviously, but where we would easily stay afloat) due to the different material densities.

Quiz question: “If an object floats in one liquid but sinks in another, what does that tell you about the densities of the two liquids?”

Child #2 answer, “The one that sinks is probably rubbing alcohol and the other is probably Saturn or Uranus or something you can float on.”

[Obviously, she was trying to think of the word "mercury" and substituted names of two other planets instead.] Is this funny to anyone else or is it one of those “you had to be there” moments?

H1N1 or the regular flu?

I was listening to the top doctor in the state I live in talk on the radio the other day about the H1N1 flu. She promotes vaccines and is highly respected. I can’t remember her title, but she’s the a medical doctor with a title tied to the state somehow.

Anyway, the guys on the radio were asking her questions and letting her promote the H1N1 vaccine. I wish I could link you to an audio of her interview, but the radio station doesn’t have a podcast up of it. I’ll paraphrase what she said, but I realize that audio of it would be better proof than me typing my remembrance of what she said.

She repeated the mantra that certain target populations should receive the vaccine. She said that even if you thought you had H1N1 already, you should STILL get the vaccine. When questioned on this, she said that you could have had the regular flu or a respiratory infection instead, so you should still get the vaccine.

About five minutes later, when asked about how it has been reported that doctors are being told to report all flu cases as H1N1 – even without testing to determine which one they are, she said it was very simple and easy to tell the difference between H1N1 and the regular flu because of the severity of the illness. (She said something like, “Ask someone who has had H1N1 and they will tell you it is completely different from the regular flu.”) When one of the radio guys asked about a respiratory infection (which she had just used as an example of something that could have been mistaken for H1N1), the doctor said that of course the symptoms were very different.

I thought to myself, “Mrs. Dr. Lady, you can’t have it both ways!”

She said that 90+% of the cases of the flu that they are seeing are H1N1. When asked how she knows this if they are assuming all cases are H1N1, she replied that it isn’t regular flu season yet.

I wish I had the audio to post. It was incredible! And the radio guys on with her just let her get away with it. (The next hour, the next guy on seemed to have caught some of the inconsistencies, but he didn’t dwell on them.) Absolutely amazing.

We are not getting the immunizations. I’m trying to keep us from getting the H1N1 while we have a newborn in the house. At some point, if the house is exposed to it, at least we will have the immunity to this strain of it after we recover. I would just rather we not get it while the baby is so little and vulnerable. So, we wash-wash-wash and we stay away from those who have been sick as much as possible (+ a week that they say you can still be contagious). But our town has been overrun with the flu (H1N1 or regular, I don’t know!).

How Crunchy Are You?

Are you “crunchy?” You know, are you the “granola” type?

I never thought of myself as being a Granola Mom. I do have several friends who fit that description. However, after taking a version of this quiz a couple of years ago, I realized I’m crunchier than I thought (“Pretty Crispy”) For a different type of “crunch” factor, you can try the one here. (This one shows I’m “totally mainstream” with a 21% crunch factor.)

It sank in the other day when my mother referred to me as “Earth Momma.” She was getting her hair done by the lady who fixed mine for my wedding (oh, so many years ago). The lady said, “I just can’t imagine your daughter homeschooling.” My mom replied, “You mean, “Earth Momma?” The lady said, “Yes, I always thought she’d be a professional woman.” To which my mother replied, “Well, she is both. She’s a professional engineer. She just has a more important day-to-day job at home.” 

Ah, and that important job is calling me. I can hear one of the kids now . . .

Are Books A Distraction?

Once my children can hold something in their hand and move across the floor in any way (crawl, walk, roll), they have grabbed a book, brought it to me (or my spouse), and insisted (verbally or non-verbally) that we read it to them. My spouse & I are big readers. My oldest now loves to read. All the others (except the baby) bring books to be read aloud to.

I’m trying to start back up with homeschooling. We’re still only doing a few subjects – with the goal of ramping up to “full” homeschooling schedule in another two or three weeks. Every day, however, I realize what a challenge that will be for us right now.

Not because of the baby.

Because every time I try to get started with something (anything – dinner, sweeping, laundry, doing history/science/religion with the older two), someone will bring me a book and ask me to read to them.

And, being me, I stop and read to them. Maybe it is only a chapter. Maybe it is only a page or two. That’s why there is a broom sitting against the kitchen table with a small pile of noodles that hasn’t been swept up yet. That’s why the laundry is still in the washer and the dryer door is open – waiting to receive the clean but still wet clothes.

In our house, books are a pleasant distraction from the rest of life. They are a distraction, but I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Eventually, the laundry will get done. We’ll get to the school work at some point.

And, I have a confession. Sometimes, I mean only to read a chapter. But, I get into the book just as much as the kids . . . and we end up reading two or three chapters. Or sometimes, we finish the whole book in one sitting and by the time I look up from our read-aloud, lunch is almost an hour late. That’s life in our house.

Kindergarten Readiness

I know this is the wrong season for posting about “kindergarten readiness.” But this has been sitting on my computer desk for awhile and I’m finally getting around to it.

We receive a newsletter from our pediatrician’s office quarterly. There are usually articles about keeping kids healthy, preventative safety tips, and an article on a health topic (immunizations, out-patient treatments for whatever, symptoms of the most recent outbreak disease, etc.). On the back of this particular one, there was an article about “Kindergarten Readiness.”

They went into general indications your child is ready in such areas as behavior, verbal ability, and motor skills. The last paragraph was what stood out to me. See what you think:

“Remember, the object of kindergarten is not to make your child a star in the academic Olympics. It is to guide your child to the overall maturity that is needed for a solid start to a good education.”

Comments are welcome.

School Status

I planned to do no school this month. However, a couple of weeks ago, I felt really good with how we were doing with the new arrival. I thought about it and figured that starting one “fun” subject would be ok. So, we started doing history using Story of the World 2. We just started Chapter 4 on Thursday and we are going pretty slow – using my lesson plans but spreading the work out over a couple of days. This has been good since I have a LOT of books for most of these chapters, so we do read-alouds most days.

We’ve “eaten like Roman soldiers” and recently also “eaten like monks.” We’ve made our own ink and quill pens. We’re learning to draw mythical creatures from a book we checked out to see how to draw Grendel from the Beowulf story. (Child #2 is very artistic.)

This past week, we also started our religious studies. So, if I feel adventurous, we’ll add science this week. I still have a few weeks until I planned to start “full school,” so whatever we get done now is “gravy.” The kids love history & science, so they enjoy it and I still have time to keep up with the laundry, house, and feeding a newborn.

New Arrival

Just a note to let you know that Number 5 arrived Sunday evening. I’ll save you the gory details, but will tell you this –

It’s a boy. He was almost 10 lbs. It was a “normal” delivery. We arrived at the hospital at 5:35 p.m. He was born at 5:56 p.m. He has the coloring of Number 3 (which is different than all the others).

We are all home and it will take awhile to adjust to having a little one in the house again. (Mostly, it is an adjustment for the other kids.)

Status Update

Baby is still enjoying the comforts of the womb. (It must be awfully plush in there. Fed on demand. Constant warm temp. No chaffing clothing. The other kids’ screaming is dampened by mom-body sounds. Just getting a little bit cramped.)

Officially now several days past my due date. The longest I’ve ever had a kid stay inside before this was one day past my due date. I think I’m kept waiting like this because I so dread that one day that is “Labor Day” when the kid comes out. (Ow! Ow! Ow!) I’d much rather be pregnant longer. So, when my due date comes & goes, I become much more willing to go through the pain of giving birth. (Darnnit kid, you’re coming out TODAY. Stop fooling around.)

It feels like I’ve had a stomach ache for about a week because of the Braxton-Hicks contractions. Sometimes they kick up into some serious gut-clenchers, but that usually subsides within an hour or two.

We’re hoping the baby comes out on its own early this week because I really don’t want to contemplate a medical induction. I’d sit it out for another week gladly, but my husband has already informed me that I might be lucky to get a ride home from the hospital (and that’s it) if we deliver on Thursday or later due to his work demands/schedule. As I really need someone to watch the other four kids while I’m in the hospital, this doesn’t appeal to me. (We have a few options for half-day coverage when I’m in labor, but on-going help is scarce as most people have enough kids of their own and can’t easily add four more to their load.)

Completely unrelated story:  I ran into a family (minus the mom) that we are loosely friends wish but don’t see often at the library. I’d seen the kids and mom a few times over the last several months, but neither of us have ever mentioned my pregnancy. I hadn’t seen the husband in a while – which I didn’t realize until he asked if *that* was my kid (pointing to #4) and saying he hadn’t seen him since he was a baby. I think the husband might have noticed that I’m pregnant, but I’m not sure he’ll say anything to his wife as I haven’t gotten an accusatory phone call asking why I didn’t tell her that I was expecting again. (We share the same OB/GYN and our next youngest kids are only about a month apart.) Me? I just look really fat when I’m pregnant.

Hope next post is to announce arrival of No. 5!

Looking for the Eject Button

I’m conflicted. On one hand, I’d like to keep this baby inside for another month. Seriously. They are so much easier to take care of on the inside than on the outside. And I’m so very blessed in the pregnancy category because I have extremely easy pregnancies (only the usual symptoms and complaints) compared to some.

On the other hand, I really thought I was going to have the baby yesterday. I woke up at 3 a.m. (for the second or third time) to visit the bathroom. By 3:15, the “gut clenching” contractions had started. They were five minutes apart and about 45 seconds long for awhile. I prayed for some more sleep, believing it would be a long day. Sometime between 5 a.m. and 6 a.m., they slacked off in frequency and magnitude and I fell back asleep.

We had plans to go to the ‘big city’ since I had a doctor’s appointment that afternoon and we’d get the oil changed on the Toyota Sienna. My spouse had the day off, so it would have been a great day to have a baby. We had lunch while the oil was being changed. We were not talked into a transmission/ differential fluid change or the four new tires they wanted to sell us. We dropped the kids off at my parent’s place so we could try to “walk the baby out” since we’d had such good contractions during the early morning hours.

We climbed over 600 stairs and walked a great deal more horizontal ground in and around the hospital at which I hope to deliver. While the contractions were going pretty good during all that walking and climbing, they slowed down to a trickle once we sat down to wait for my doctor’s appointment.

For a change, they got us in on time (even ahead of time) for my appointment. I went ahead and got my cervix checked. For all that work, I’m only 2 cm dilated. We knew it was no use at that point, declined the stripping of membranes, picked up the kids, and headed home.

We had a very nice, quiet evening at home – making homemade pizza and having birthday cake and ice cream for dessert. You see, yesterday was my birthday. As much as I wanted to have that baby yesterday, I’m relieved to still be at home today taking care of the other four kids while husband is back at work.

I’m no longer looking for the eject button. I’m content to wait to see when this child is going to come out all on its own. Who knows? Perhaps I won’t have to climb another 600 stair steps to get the child out. (My husband’s favorite labor-speeding up process is walking the stairs at the hospital. It has worked the last two babies.) Maybe this labor will go like my first one – quick.

For now, back to the usual. I think I’ll do some mending today as the objects (a couple of buttons to sew back on, some rips and tears to fix, a patch or two to affix) are really starting to pile up. And read several books aloud. And play a new matching game that my six year old made for me that she calls “Indian Checkers.” You know, the usual.

Now, talk to me again when I’m “overdue” to have this baby and maybe I’ll sing a different tune.

The Waiting Game

A neighbor stopped my husband the other night when he was taking two of the children for a walk to ask if we had “a new baby” yet. My husband looked at her blankly for a moment and then curtly said, “no.”

I usually tell people I’m due a week or two later than my actual due date so as to keep this type of questioning to a minimum. The last two children, I haven’t done that and have ended up getting my share of the “haven’t you had the baby yet?” questions. I try to tell people that I don’t go (that) early. I don’t induce early. I don’t schedule c-sections. I usually have the child right before or right after my due date. I use the Prem method for determining estimated date of childbirth (EDC) and I’ve found it is much more accurate (for me) than the Naegele Rule that most people use to calculate an estimated due date (EDD).

The difference for some women is neglible. For me, it can be 7-12 days, which can mean the difference between a doctor pushing for an induced labor or letting the child continue to grow until it comes out on its own. Here’s the difference:

EDD (Naegele rule): Start with first day of the Last Menstrual Period (LMP), add seven days, add nine months. (Assumes ovulation on Day 14.)

EDC  (Prem rule): Start with first day of overall thermal shift minus seven days, add nine months. (Assumes you are charting your basal body temp each morning.)

Most women don’t know their thermal shift (upward basal body temp pattern) or their day of ovulation, thus making it difficult to get an EDC using the Prem method.

In my case with this pregnancy, my EDD is 10 days before my EDC. The ultrasound we had at ~ 20 weeks showed an EDD roughly 12 days before my EDC. I’ve calculated my EDC with four of five children. In three of the four deliveries so far, I’ve been -3 days (vs. +7/+ 5 for EDD) for two of them and + 1 day (vs. + 8 days for EDD) for one. We’ll see how this one turns out.

Either way, I’m in that “waiting” period with plenty of things still on my ‘to do’ list. If I went into labor early, all required tasks are complete. The to do list at this point includes only “nice to haves” that either can be left incomplete or my spouse can do them himself.

I always say that they are easier to take care of inside than they are once they are out! The only thing is planning in terms of taking care of the other children and my spouse’s work schedule. We have contingencies for each, but a delivery within a certain “window” of days (and time of day) is easier.

But we’ll take it whenever it comes out – convenient or not.